Friday, June 4, 2010

The Osmond Wives

My Aunt Jennilyn set up an announcement luncheon at the Wight House in Ogden right after Wayne and I got engaged. I've mentioned my mother's sister that was only 3 years older than I was before in the blog. Whenever Lynnie leaves a comment on the blog I have warm thoughts of my aunt, because her nickname was Lynnie.

Everyone from both families were at the announcement luncheon except Mother Osmond who was in California with Jimmy. I think this is the first time that I met Chris and Lyn. It was fun to get to know my future sister-in-laws, Mary and Suzanne more too. All the women in the Osmond family were really friendly and nice and it was a beautiful, fun luncheon.

My future sister-in-laws, Debbie, Michelle, Kandilyn and Carolyn are also really wonderful. I took an elementary education music class from Dr. Avery Glenn at BYU. It was my favorite class because Dr. Glenn made the class so fun and he could really play the piano! We'd pound on a drum or hit sticks together while he would play ragtime. His daughter, Pam, was in the same class with me. We became good friends and after Wayne and I got married I saw Pam at the mall in Orem. She suggested that I line up her little sister, Debbie, with Donny. She told me that Debbie had posters of Donny plastered all over her bedroom walls when she was younger. Pam is a beautiful person inside and out but I hadn't ever met or seen Debbie so I was hesitant in introducing them until I had at least met her.

That didn't matter because Donny found Debbie without my help. I'm sure you have all heard their story so I won't go into it in detail. I remember sitting in their recording studio in the basement at Riviera apartments one day and Donny asking me if it would be really bad it he asked Debbie out since he met her when she was Jay's date when they went on a double date together. I remember suggesting that he ask Jay to see if he minded. I'm sure you have all heard the rest.

Debbie is just as beautiful and sweet as her sister Pam. I was really excited when she joined the family. I felt a special bond with her because I loved the other members of her family so much. I don't remember the exact time or place we finally got acquainted but I remember her going to Hawaii with us to announce their engagement.

I also don't remember the exact time and place that I met Kandilyn. Jay wasn't in show business at the time so it probably wasn't until after they were engaged. Kandilyn thought she was marrying someone that would continue to work in the administration office at Brigham Young University and I'm sure this whole show business thing wasn't what she had agreed to in the beginning. I hope Jay tells us more in his new book coming out soon.

Michelle Larson and her family lived in our home ward in Provo. Her mother, Renae, became my visiting teacher right after they moved into our ward. Renae is such a sweet, thoughtful person. I remember being asked to give the closing prayer in Relief Society one week and was struggling with at least one baby. Renae immediately saw my need and jumped up immediately to hold the fussy baby so I could say the closing prayer. That was my first experience with Michelle's mother. Her father was called to be in the bishopric so I remember darling Michelle and her brothers growing up in our neighborhood.

Wayne and I asked Michelle if she would babysit our children on occasion. We thought that she was the perfect match for Jimmy immediately but didn't suggest that they become acquainted at that time because Michelle was still pretty young. Later Wayne and I tried to line them up but Michelle couldn't seem to ever go and remember being a little disappointed that they hadn't gone out on a date before she left for her mission to South America. I didn't know at the time, but Alan & Suzanne and others had also tried to line Michelle up with Jimmy for a date but to no avail. Interestingly enough, I remember Jimmy sitting in the congregation when she gave a talk in church before she left, so he must have been interested.

You probably all know the details of their dating, engagement and marriage already too.  Carolyn is the perfect match for Tom. I remember going to Ephraim where I met her whole family before they were married. They were all so down to earth. Tom is a blessed man to have Carolyn in his life. She is so calm and understanding, such a sweetheart.

Have I forgotten any one? The first time I met Merrill was probably at Merrill and Mary's reception. Merrill and Mary always seemed to have so much fun together all the time. Merrill also has a special charismatic quality like Donny and people gravitate to him. My boys would go down to Fairview and hang out with Mary and Merrill's family and without doubt come home asking why I couldn't be as fun as Aunt Mary?

Once in awhile I'll tease Mary about being the mean drill sergeant when I was going through initiation for this social/service club at BYU. She must think that I'm serious when I tease her because she tells me that she wasn't any meaner than the girl that was the drill sergeant the year she was initiated.  For a week we had to do whatever the former members of the club wanted us to do. Mary was in charge of the very early morning exercises. I remember sitting on one of the tall polls in the parking lot in front of the BYU stadium when it was still dark outside. There was something we had to do with eggs but I can't remember much now. I was probably half asleep going through the drills. That part of the initiation wasn't that bad. The hardest part was that we had to do something for every member of the club during that week. I remember baking cakes, washing windows, etc. It was hard focusing on school that week and I remember thinking it wasn't worth it and almost quitting toward the end of the week.

I know I have used the gushing words friendly, sweet, kind, warm, etc. over and over when describing my first encounters with the members of the Osmond family but that was my first impression. I know that most of you feel the same way about them or they wouldn't have so many friends that adore and love them all over the world.

29 comments:

Shundra said...

Wow, Kathy!!! Interesting take on your brothers-in-law. I think you forgot Suzanne.

I didn't know everybody in the family were trying to hook up Jimmy with Michelle. That was an interesting story, but I'm glad those two finally got together after all that. They were definitely made for each other.

Thanks for sharing, Kathy.

Shundra said...

That's a beautiful picture of you and Wayne. Aww. Was this one of your engagement pictures?

Kathlyn Osmond said...

I wrote about the first time I met Suzanne on the blog, "Would you call this camping out?" Suzanne was also nice like the rest of the Osmonds. The photo on this post was one of our announcement or engagement photos.

ali said...

I don't know half of what you assume we might already know, so I find it all interstesting!
One thing that I already did know but that you confirm everytime you write, is how nice and friendly everyone in the Osmond family is.
ali x

kathy57 said...

Hi Kathy,
Sure love all your stories and this picture
is truly lovely. Been your neighbor for the
past few days but when I came to say hello
after the show, Wayne was just coming back
and you were not in the room...must be out for a walk he said. We are the same as we are both night owls...up till the wee hours.
Tomorrow is the last show :( Look forward to
being back in the fall...love the blog, Kathy

hanne said...

You discribe your family just as we know them..........or think we know them ;)

and Im sure that you are just as warm and sweet and kind and helpful and..........well Im sure you got it all too :)

mfk1022 said...

I remember when you got engaged I was almost 10.I can remember being happy for you because I figured Wayne was too old for me anyway.Funny thing is I ended up marrying a man who is 4 yrs older than Wayne Ha!!.There is a 17 yr age difference between us!This sept will be our 19th anniversary!

MARJA said...

This is so interesting Kathy! How great to read all these wonderful stories! Thank you for sharing! I can't wait to read Jay's book either, and hope he'll share some stories about that.
Hope to see you in Branson in September Kathy! It would be so nice to meet you!
Much love from Holland! :o)
Marja

Anonymous said...

Interesting that your friend said Debbie had posters of Donny on her wall as Donny always says she was a David Cassidy fan.

Great blog Kathy, I enjoy reading it.

Anne

Sherry of IN said...

Beautifully written and I love how you talk about each of the wives. I also didn't realize everyone was trying to get Jim and Michelle together. I do have that announcement for your engagement - several different newspapers too. I remember my mom saying "She is beautiful". Thanks for sharing so many wonderful stories. Hmmm...I wonder how Debbie is going to feel when she reads that she had posters on her wall of Donny...HEE HEE!!!

Margaret said...

Beautiful picture of you both. Thankyou for this blog Kathy. Has Wayne been reading your blog? Hope your coming to the UK in a few weeks too. Everyone over here is so excited!
x

DeLynda said...

Kathy, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your blogs. I just discovered them and have read them through since the beginning like a book. I joined Weight Watchers Jan. 20th of this year and have lost 37 lbs. so far. I have a long way to go, but THIS IS MY YEAR! I'm also into My Family History. I will post my weight loss on your Apple A Day Blog and I also have a dead end on one of my family trees I'd love you to help me with. Again, this is a great site. Thank you.

Kristin Marie Leone said...

I'm with Shundra on this one...I only thought it was you and Kathy tried to get Jimmy and Michelle together...seeing as Michelle used to babysit your children. Jimmy and Michelle do make a great couple

DeLynda said...

Kathy, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your blogs. I just discovered them this week and have read them all like a book. I want to be a part of your An Apple A Day Club. I joined Weight Watchers in Jan. and have lost 37 lbs. so far. I also love My Family History. Can't wait to read more.

DeLynda said...

Kathy, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your blogs. I just discovered them this week. I have read them straight through like a book. I want to join your "An Apple A Day" Group. I joined Weight Watchers in Jan. and have lost 37 lbs. so far. I also love genealogy. Can't wait to read more. Thank you.

Tonda said...

Another great post Kathy! Keep 'em coming!

Karen Haydu said...

Beautiful picture of you and Wayne! I didn't know you knew Debbie's Dad and sister Pam. Thanks for sharing your story about your sister-in-laws with us. Marie once mentioned on QVC one of her sister-in-laws likes dolls. Which one is a doll collector?

I have friends who are such a fun couple/family and my kids say the same thing to me. Maybe because the family always camps together, not my cup of tea. I'd rather have a barbeque in the yard and play volleyball with everyone or take a trip to the beach and go shopping. Well I have to go get things done for my teenage son's party today. All I have to do is prepare and serve the food, pick up the ice-cream cake.... then this FUN Mom is finished for the day....HA! Love reading your blog Kathy, have a good weekend!

Carla said...

Thanks again, Kathy, for sharing another slice of your life with us.
I'm sure if every Osmond wife was asked to describe you, they'd use the same "gushing" words about you in all sincerity, too.
It was funny to read about "fun" Aunt Mary as I remember thinking the same only about my Dad. Every other Dad was more fun than mine, it seemed. Of course, none of us knows what goes on within another family, so maybe other parents used up their fun with others for all we know. HA!
Love the photo,too!
Carla

Terry in Indiana said...

What a sweet photo! Wayne looks like he is proud to be engaged to you - and rightly so!
Interesting stories. I knew that Jimmy had met Michelle in church but I didn't really know the whole story. They seem perfect for one another.
I was reading on Jimmy's forum that they have an anniversary coming up on Mon. 6/7. Hope they are able to have a fun and wonderful day.

EricsmomTimsgal said...

Hi Kathy.

I remember years ago seeing your engagement photo with Wayne. It's a very nice photo.

I think that you are a very special person to deal with all the years of Wayne being on the road on and off, and all that went into it all.

I'm sure Wayne knows that.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kathy....your blog is so enjoyable and interesting to read!! Thank you for taking the time to share with us. The stories of your meeting the Osmonds has been so fun to read. Love the pictures too!
Safe travels to you and Wayne, enjoy the time off before you head out on the road again. Hope you are in Branson this fall.....

Zeitha in Illinois

Elma Gonzales said...

Kathy,
I just love knowing all about your sister-in-laws. I hope you can upload some early photos of them and you together, having fun times and some serious times.

I never saw that photo of you and Wayne before. I like it a lot! More! More! More! (laughs) :)

Anita said...

Loved this Kathy - I'm sure we all know bits of what happened when the Osmonds met their future wives but great to fill in all the gaps - Thank you xx

Leslie said...

Love reading about the inside stories. I'm glad you and the other wives "share" your families with us. It must have been hard at times for you and your families. Thank you very much.

Leslie

Franki said...

It is really fun to get to know the family through this blog. Thanks for sharing. I remember when each of the guys, well Merrill, Alan, Wayne and Donny anyway- got married. I think I cried when Alan got married because I knew Wayne was next.

I agree, I think you think we know alot more than we do, especially about Jay and Jimmy's engagements and marriages.

Would it be rude to ask how Wayne proposed? If that is too personal, I understand. Mine isn't all that romantic, but I still remember the time and place.

Country Cottage said...

Love this post Kathlyn!!!. I told you that my husband has 5 brothers so I have 5 sister-in-laws... hihi!!!
The Osmond wives are so beautiful and sweet !!!
My son and my sister saw Debbie in Broadway when they met Donny. They told me that Debbie is a very beautiful woman. In Wembley last year, I met Jay and Kandilyn before the show . I was very pleased to speak to her. She told me that she did not go to France and I answered " you should visit Paris,it's the most romantic city in the world!!!"
Love the sweet and romantic picture
Hugs
Cathy

kathy57 said...

Hi Kathy,
What about Chris and Virl?

Kathlyn Osmond said...

Chris is a very bright, honest and open woman. It's so refreshing to get someone's real opinion and not just have them tell me what I want to hear. I think that I got to know her at the luncheon for the first time like I said above. I also remember her at a wedding shower that my roommates gave me and all the Osmond wives were there.

Wayne felt he had a special relationship with his older brother Virl. Wayne was so proud of Virl when he was chosen to be the crossing guard at the elementary school in Ogden. Wayne really looked up to Virl. Chris and Virl are also very kind and considerate. such a cute couple!

kathy57 said...

Thanks Kathy.....I met Virl a few years ago
when Merrill was doing the play "Civil War".
Virl came by the luncheon we were having with
Merrill and he and I had a wonderful time talking about his mother. He is such a kind and patient man and really enjoyed all the attention he was given. I would love to meet Chris because I appreicate anyone who will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear...sounds like she would make a wonderful friend. From your experiences with all your "sisters" it must be such great fun to have them in your life.
Thanks for continuing your blog. Have a safe and happy trip to England. Hoping to finally meet you in Branson in the fall.
Kathy - San Jose